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A Year Later

The best year of my life. The ground work began on December 1st of 2016.  On that day Adam put himself on a fast.  All on his own.  I didn’t ask or hint at it, I didn’t even send him … Continue reading

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A few of the million lessons I’ve learned

It’s been one month shy of a year since the truth came out.  Here are some of the lessons I’ve learned during this baptism by fire: Everything, EVERYTHING, has a healthy side and a sinful side. I have always been a … Continue reading

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The Whole Timeline

I believe that forgiveness for me, the victim, is far easier than it is for most of you. And I have a theory why: It’s because I know Adam. I know his whole life, “the whole timeline”, and because of that I … Continue reading

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Showing up:

Yesterday was my daughter’s birthday. How wonderful these past 6 years have been now that Little-Love is in the world. But like all holidays since finding out the news: I was dreading her birthday. Mostly because my sweet girl just … Continue reading

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Signs of Life

Last year on my birthday, Adam bought me a fiddle-leaf tree.  It was exactly what I had wanted. But almost immediately the tree seemed to die.  I replanted it in a self watering pot, I added fertilizer, I moved it … Continue reading

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Enough.

I feel like I am walking a million different journeys at once.  The lessons I am learning this year are all so brutal and so incredibly beautiful all at once.  I can’t really describe it other then to say that … Continue reading

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Fear has a name:

Remember the story of Jesus and Peter walking on the water? Matthew 14:22-33 (NIV) “Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. After he had … Continue reading

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