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The Whole Timeline

I believe that forgiveness for me, the victim, is far easier than it is for most of you. And I have a theory why: It’s because I know Adam. I know his whole life, “the whole timeline”, and because of that I … Continue reading

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Showing up:

Yesterday was my daughter’s birthday. How wonderful these past 6 years have been now that Little-Love is in the world. But like all holidays since finding out the news: I was dreading her birthday. Mostly because my sweet girl just … Continue reading

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Fear has a name:

Remember the story of Jesus and Peter walking on the water? Matthew 14:22-33 (NIV) “Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. After he had … Continue reading

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Should auld acquaintance be forgot, And never brought to mind?

So, Christmas was wonderful.  But New Years was bearing down on us and lets just say that our last New Year was less than celebrated.  Adam was dreading the day even more than I was. We are in a drastically … Continue reading

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When a man is trying to change…

So… most of you don’t like Adam, right? Of course you don’t.  How could you? I mean…I liked him 12 years ago, when we first started dating. I liked him when we got married. But I’ve liked him less and … Continue reading

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The best advice:

On our very first date post separation Adam and I went to the movies in the middle of the day, but on our way we made a quick stop at an outdoor supply store to pick something up.  Right at … Continue reading

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The Train…

You know that moment when the Doctor first hands you your baby.  Or the first time your kid hugs you back? Do you remember that moment when you realized that you would easily take a bullet for this human? I’ve … Continue reading

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